We have the roles we want. These are our aspirations. These are our goals.
But we cannot be everything. We have to chose.
When we do make that choice, be content with it. Whatever role you fill should be fulfillment of an aspiration, after all.
We are continually creating ourselves. But our choices reveal what is truly important.
Understand and embrace the roles that you are already playing. That security and cultivation will lead to the creation of new roles that may be closer to what you imagined.